Category: Polyamory

  • Let’s Default to Ethcial

    Let’s talk about the concept of ethical nonmonogamy. I spend a lot of time thinking about words. When I’m creating a rough draft, the goal is to tell the story as quickly as possible, and consequently I don’t spend too much time on any single word. But prior to publication, every word included in my…

  • The Word is Triad

    Confession: I DETEST the word ‘throuple’ with intense passion. The sound of it assaults my soul with all the discordant torture of the sound of… Do we still say nails on a chalkboard? Chalkboards went extinct in US classrooms shortly after I graduated, didn’t they? So at this point something like half the population doesn’t…

  • Polyamorous Romance vs Harem Romance

    Part of why I write polyamorous stories these days is that I am polyamorous myself. It’s a trendy thing to be lately, although it wasn’t when I first found myself in a romantic triad by near-accident. Before crossing into polyamory, I’ll admit I didn’t mind reading harem romances. But since then, I have developed a…